September 11 holds emotional significance for many individuals, including myself. As a university student, I witnessed the heartbreaking events unfold from my campus, with a striking view of downtown Manhattan. I wanted to share this event with my children, not initially knowing how to approach the subject. Despite this uncertainty, I have found optimism in discussing this sensitive topic with my 8 and 3-year-old children.
In the ever-evolving landscape of age-appropriate discussions, addressing the topic of September 11 holds importance. Through research, professional development workshops, and understanding my children’s unique perspectives, One Love Cultured Kids discovered an approach that resonates. Figure we’d share them with you in case you choose to talk with your child about this event.
For our little preschoolers, we chose to shine a light on the true heroes of that tragic day: the first responders and the unity within our community. By focusing less on the trauma and graphic imagery, we can share a narrative that inspires bravery and showcases the power of helping one another.
With our elementary school students it’s likely that they have already encountered whispers of this significant event. To start the conversation, we encourage open dialogue by asking them what they’ve heard. By listening intently, we gain insight into their understanding, processing, and emotions surrounding this topic. We counter any misinformation with factual information while focusing on instilling hope, unity, and the importance of doing what’s right.
With optimism and care, we navigate these discussions, ensuring that our children grow with resilience and compassion. Below are few resources we found to be helpful. What have you found to be useful? Share your recommendation for books, tools or findings with us (oneloveculturedkids@gmail.com) or in the comments. We’d love to hear from you!
Answering Kids’ Questions about 9/11 – Nightly News Kids Edition